Hello ladies, my name is Brendan J Brophy and I live in Sydney Australia. To keep it brief, I financially retired 3 years ago when COVID19 began, and it actually was a bad decision because I got very bored and had nothing to do with my life other than sitting around my penthouse at home. It has taken me 3 years and a lot of spiritual, mental and physical anguish to realise it, but my passion is more in helping people around the world in whatever small way I can.

So that may be giving of anything I have: money, labour, ideas, resources, my contacts and anything else a charity may need, and my own future foundation may require of me.

I will launch my own Foundation / charity as a short to medium term goal. And that’s where I think I will ‘roll my sleeves up’ and help out with war torn Eastern Europe. Trauma is a universally endured phenomenon and applies to everyone on earth 😃

Check Dr Gabor Maté on trauma, complex trauma and PTSD:
This created meanimeaning in my life 😃

I really support everybody in Ukraine to stand up for what is right and don’t be scared

In one month from now, in early September 2023, I will be flying from Australia a one way ticket to Europe with no return tix booked. So it means I can return to Australia anytime I want. Might be in Europe many months… 😃

Then I’m travelling throughout Europe, and I know it’s not safe to go to Ukraine now because of the war, but I was wondering if the right girl came along and was eligible for a plane ticket out of Ukraine, then I would be happy to meet the right person and do some travelling together. I don’t know if this is unrealistic, but there must be some people eligible to fly out of Ukraine, surely ? Or you can apply for a VISA to flee the country under political refugee asylum ?

CAN SOMEONE BE KIND ENOUGH TO GUIDE ME ON MY ABOVE QUESTIONS?

THANKS!

Brendan

20 years ago, my late Mentor Irmgard Johnstone did a psychological exercise with me, where she asked me to write down the 7 areas of life, and then quickly write a one page description of my ideal partner in each of the 7 areas. So it’s a very long answer to this question! The 7 areas are:

Spirituality
Mental world
Emotional world.
Physical world and capabilities.
Financial world
Social and friends and networks.
Familial world,

Both with your original parents and siblings , and your family of creation, the family maybe one day, I will be able to father and nurture.

However, I think the traits that stand out above all else for me are simple: smart funny and beautiful.

When I have found these strongly in a woman I always like her and sometimes more than just liked!

So we will just have to find out if we like each other, have the similar beliefs and values, and a similar upward trajectory in life.

Best ,

Brendan xox