Help using this site
How the service works
Both men and women can join us for free by submitting your profile here. You will choose a username and will be assigned a mail box on our server where you can check your mail, keep track of mail sent, members contacted, credits purchased and spent. We strongly encourage you to upload your pictures to your profile, as profiles without pictures get virtually no responses.
You can then search our database and contact any number of members. You can contact them in 3 ways (it's your choice):
1. Send them a message (free)
Members will receive your message instantly. Response will be delivered in the same way right into your mail box on our website. You will receive email notification of each message received.
If you receive a response from the lady, to open it you need to purchase credits ($1-$2 per credit depending on the quantity of credits you purchase). Number of credits needed to open a letter varies. You can pay with a credit card, check, wire, and more.
2. Send them a "smile" (free)
A "smile" is a quick "Hi" message with a link back to your profile which indicates to a member that you are interested in him or her.
3. Place a live interpreted phone call directly to her via our bi-lingual operator (1.8 credits per minute)
Just contact us, and tell the operator your login to our site, and the name or reference number of the member you want to talk to.
* Note that for some of members do not have their number listed or we may have to arrange the call in advance. In such instances we will not be able to connect you immediately, instead we will schedule a call for a later time which is convenient for you.
What is the next step
Once you have established a conversation with one or a few members one way or another, it's time to think about personally meeting her (or him). Since our men and women are often located on different continents, we can help arrange your first meeting, if both parties positively agree to meet.
If you choose not to use our service to arrange your meeting with the lady, there is a way to bypass it by getting her direct contact information.
We have a unique floating price structure which allows us to offer you such low prices as 50 cents per one letter exchange (to send one letter and receive one response) without ever cutting corners on quality of the service. Similar service from our competition is as high as $8. And our services to women are traditionally free of charge.
Important: once you start corresponding with a woman, the price you pay to open her letter stays the same for you.
Here is how it works. First you purchase credits at the following prices:
100 credits or more: $1 for each credit
55 credits: $1.09 for each credit
20 credits: $2 for each credit
Secondly, the price (in credits) for opening a letter from each member also varies, and here is why.
While the vast majority of our male members have personal email addresses and easy access to the Internet, this is not always the case with our female members. Delivering messages to some of them who do not have Internet access, involves calling them and asking to come to a local facility to read their mail and respond to those they are interested in. There is a translator available at each local facility to help read the message and write a response if a woman does not speak English. If the lady cannot come to the local facility soon, an interpreter would read the message to her over the phone and/or it will be printed and mailed to her by domestic mail. This is an expensive process. However in case of women who do have Internet access and a personal email which they regularly check, delivering a message to them is as easy as forwarding it, and is fully automated. So the bottom line for delivering your correspondence is different in each case. While our competitors will charge you the full price anyway and just pocket the difference, we are passing the savings on to you.
The majority of our women do have email address, and you can correspond with them directly, without any agency involvement, for a very low price (as low as 50 cents per 2-way letter exchange)
But that's not all. The problem with all dating sites is that a small number of women who are extremely popular get the majority of letters from men. That's bad for both the majority of women who do not get any letters as well as for guys whos letters go unanswered. The dating sites do not really care about that as long as they can put pretty faces of their most popular girls on the first page and sell subscriptions or addresses. They do not advertize the fact that these girls have received hundreds of letters from other men. To cure this inherent problem we are introducing a floating price for correspondence with each woman based on the number of members she is actively corresponding with. Our system monitors how many letters she had already received The more letters she receives, the greater is the price in credits to open a letter from her. The price however stays constant for those men already corresponding with her, but increases for new contact attempts, thus naturally limiting the number of guys writing to her. At a certain point, when too many letters go unanswered and price increase is no longer practical, her profile will be dropped from search results (allowing existing correspondence to continue anyway). If a member is not answering any letters his or her profile will be suspended and later removed for inactivity.
The price in credits you actually pay for opening a letter from a given female member will be based on the above two factors and varies from 0.5 credit to 20 credits
Where to get more information about a member
All the information we have about our members is available on their personal pages. We publish everything we have, except for their contact information. If her personal page says "Unknown", or "Information not supplied" on certain fields, for example: "Weight: Unknown", or "Education: Information not supplied" , that means that the member chose not to answer that question.
Is this member available?
If member's personal page is showing on our web site - yes, it is available. We don't want to waste your time or ours, so we remove all profiles that become unavailable, or are inactive. The inactivity is determined by a member not visiting our site, not checking his or her mail, not answering letters or "smiles" in his or her mail box. Before we remove a profile we contact the member by email to give them a warning before we remove her/his profile.
What does "Will tell you later" mean?
Some of the bio data fields on personal pages are answered "Will tell you later". For example "Hobbies : Will tell you later..". That is what a member chose to answer to this specific question. It is one of the answer options that we offer in our questionnaire. It means that if you does not want to publish this information on the Web, however does not mind discussing it in correspondence with you.