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Hi, I'm Daniel, I'm a trucker from Virginia. I love dogs and rock concerts. I play drums and do lots of cool projects like painting, crafts. I'm looking for a serious relationship.
Instead of continuing with some cheesy bio, I'd like to offer some of the advice and wisdom that I have accumulated over the years, Much of which learned the hard way. One of the most important things you can learn is to always have a positive outlook and Contribute something positive to the world around you because whatever you contribute to the universe that's what it's going to give back to you. Even your thoughts are are contribution to the overall collective of everything that exists. Just the fact that anything exists at all is a miracle. There could just be nothing no me no you no planets no stars no universe. So we should all take a minute and be thankful to have what we do have rather than be upset with what we don't. Even in America where people supposedly have it so good you'll find most people are upset with what they don't have rather than thankful for what they do. This mindset plays a very big role in the greater continuum of life and its ability to provide you the things that you need. Which what we all need most is happiness and contentment.
Another extremely important thing I would tell people is to protect your hurt especially if you're a hopeless romantic type of person don't go falling in love with anybody unless you know that this person is on the same page as you and that you both want to get married. I've seen many times a relationship where one person falls in love while the other Person is only there for selfish game like sex or looking good or short-term companionship. If one person is essentially a player and the other person is falling in love and it's probably not going to end well. So the ultimate lesson is there is no reason to fall in love with someone unless you know for sure that they're in love with you and that you're both going to get married otherwise it's going to dissolve and you're going to get hurt bottom line. But the real problem is the hurt from getting your heart broken can cause real problems in someone's life I've seen people developmental problems drinking problems bipolar disorder all sorts of things can happen just from falling in love with some player who doesn't care about you. And it is true for both men and women.
The next thing I would say which is kind of along that same mine is extremely important to learn how to spot narcissistic type of people. You'll see the term psychopath and narcissist Used interchangeably. But I understand a psychopath to be either like Hitler or Ted Bundy, Which are these elite level personalities who are capable of anything. but in that same vein even business men, celebrities and these types of people can all be psychopaths because they're placed in high power authority positions where they have to overlook people's lives for this agenda that they're involved in. But psychopaths can be everyday people as well I just think narcissism is a lot more common because narcissists have more of an emotional element to what they're doing whereas psychopaths are more cold and calculating and looking for that top position, But there can also be overlap between the two. But it's important to realize that both types of people have a distinctly different personality than regular people. Narcissist and psychopaths essentially have very little or no empathy towards others especially how they feel. But the difference would be like a narcissist would be a bar shark who's down at the bar scamming all the girls so that he can look cool and Feel like he's hot s*** cause he scores the most of the bar. That's kind of a petty trivial emotional game compared to some corporate ceo who sells poisonous products like cigarettes and markets them as hip and cool. There's a big difference between the behavior but the essential personality fault is the same which is is lack of empathy towards others.
So anyway there's a few tidbits of the wisdom I've gained over the years through watching people do stupid things with their lives.
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